The Dimbleby Lecture

By Mr Emin, Deputy Headteacher

In his recent Richard Dimbleby Lecture, Ex-England football manager Sir Gareth Southgate shared insights that struck a chord with many of us, especially regarding the pressures facing young people today.

In his address, Sir Gareth Southgate highlighted how boys, in particular, are grappling with unrealistic societal expectations of masculinity—expectations that often discourage emotional expression, vulnerability, and seeking help. These pressures, compounded by the constant comparison fostered by social media, can lead to anxiety, self-doubt, and isolation.

At school, we aim to create an environment where boys can thrive emotionally as well as academically. By promoting emotional intelligence, resilience, and selfawareness, we help our students understand that strength lies in vulnerability and growth. Our pastoral support, wellbeing workshops, and open discussions about menta

l health are vital in challenging the stigma around boys’ emotional wellbeing. Sir Gareth also emphasised the importance of positive male role models. He encourages leadership rooted in empathy, humility, and integrity—qualities that are essential for boys to develop a healthy sense of selfworth. We continue to provide opportunities for our boys to engage with role models who show that emotional strength, respect, and authenticity are key to success in life.

As we move forward, it’s crucial that we work together— parents and educators—to support our boys in navigating these complex challenges. Let us help them build the resilience, confidence, and emotional intelligence needed to lead fulfilling lives.

As always, if you have any concerns about the wellbeing of a young person please seek help at the school by calling us or contacting safeguarding@bow-school.org.uk

“as a society, we must do more to help young people... we must create a world where they find comfort in their own identity and a sense of belonging to those around them; where they feel they live in a culture that doesn't judge them only by how well they succeed, but by how much they grow... by the effort they put in... and the character they develop; and where they know there is always someone there to provide the love and support they need, especially in difficult times.” Sir Gareth Southgate